15 tiny tricks for when people get weird

A thoughtful lesson in public-space etiquette, some tiny social power moves and a truly bizarre animal noise.

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“Learn from yesterday, live for today, look to tomorrow, rest this afternoon.”
 ― Charles M. Schulz

Monday seems like a good day for a quick refresher course in dealing with other humans. Erik Barnes starts us off with a man who realized a woman on his running trail might be afraid of him and asked what he could do differently. We’ve also got 15 tiny social tricks for awkward situations, a fresh dose of the Peanuts dance, Monty Python turning 57, and an elk making a noise that absolutely should not come from an elk.

Ethics

Sometimes consideration starts with realizing the situation isn’t about you.

A man was out for his usual jog, hoodie up, matching sweats on, when a woman approaching him suddenly sped up. When he caught her looking back at him, he realized she might be running from him. And instead of getting defensive, he went home and asked the internet a surprisingly useful question: What could I have done differently?

As Erik Barnes reports, Reddit responded with an unusually empathetic mix of men sharing their own experiences and women explaining why public space can feel very different depending on who’s walking through it. The suggestions ranged from genuinely practical to wonderfully ridiculous. One very large man even considered a propeller hat, though he worried it might somehow make him more sinister.

But beneath the jokes was a pretty important point. Women explained that caution around a stranger often has nothing to do with that particular stranger, just as kindness can sometimes be misread as flirting. You may know you’re harmless. The person passing you on a quiet trail has absolutely no way of knowing that. So what actually helps?

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Young people recreate the iconic ‘Peanuts’ dance, bringing wholesome joy to all ages

This never doesn't slap.

Young people recreate the iconic ‘Peanuts’ dance, bringing wholesome joy to all ages

“This deserves a Nobel Peace Prize.”

By Heather Wake

There are so many reasons why A Charlie Brown Christmas remains a beloved holiday watch, no matter what age you are. Between the nostalgic animation, the charming characters, the jaunty jazz score, the treeeeeeee… there’s just so much for everyone to enjoy.

But one of the most smile-inducing elements is, of course, the dance. Each character has their own signature moves, including foot shuffles, head bobs, fist pumps, and arm swings, as Schroeder, Pig-Pen, and Snoopy bring the house down with piano, upright bass, and jaw harp.

It’s silly. It’s exuberant. It’s everything.

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Culture

A strangely useful list for anyone who has ever wanted a pause button for human interaction.

People are complicated. One minute you're trying to pick a dinner spot, the next you're trapped in small talk with someone you vaguely remember from 2017 while a toddler asks “why?” for the 40th time. Society: beautiful, exhausting, poorly labeled.

In this story by Erik Barnes, a Reddit thread on “psychological tricks” turns into a surprisingly handy field guide for navigating other humans without melting into the floor. The tips range from genuinely wise, like how to de-escalate anger by matching the emotional temperature just below the other person, to wonderfully odd, like stopping hiccups by challenging someone to prove they have them.

Today in History

On October 5, 1969, Monty Python’s Flying Circus premiered on BBC1 at 10:55 p.m. on a Sunday night, tucked rather unceremoniously between Omnibus and the weather. Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Eric Idle, Terry Jones and Michael Palin didn’t just make sketches. They gleefully dismantled television itself, putting opening credits in the middle of episodes, ending shows before they were over and letting BBC announcers lose control in the background.

The series ran for just 45 episodes across four seasons, but its particular brand of absurdity became one of the most influential comedy styles ever created. Not bad for something the BBC initially buried at 10:55 on a Sunday. 

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Until tomorrow, remember, it’s officially October, so you can put on It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown and get that PSL. The long wait is over.