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Bees, Brad, and Babies
A cemetery in New York just found over 5 million new residents. Idea theft is not a victimless crime. Plus, research debunks a stubborn myth about babies.
“Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumble bee doesn't know it so it goes on flying anyway.”
― Mary Kay Ash
In this issue...
5.56 million bees figured out that if you move to a cemetery, the flowers come to you
A GOOD Question: Honey bees beat their wings how many times per second?
Brad stole your idea in the meeting, here’s the move that gets it back
Sixty years of data just debunked one of child development’s most stubborn myths
Science
Rest in bees.
We know bees are smart. They fly in defiance of physics*. They dance out turn-by-turn directions to the best blooms in the zip code. And apparently, after millions of years of commuting to the flowers, some of them said: "Enough. We're moving somewhere the flowers come to us.”
Enter East Lawn Cemetery in Ithaca, New York, where Cornell scientists recently confirmed that more than 5.56 million miner bees have been living underground, unbothered, since at least 1935. As Erik Barnes reports, the bees chose their real estate wisely. No pesticides, minimal foot traffic, soil that never gets disturbed. And the flowers? People bring those year-round. The bees didn't have to do a thing.
The researchers are now racing to protect the site. Because if someone paves it over, that's 5.5 million pollinators gone in an afternoon. Which would be, if you’ll forgive me, a grave mistake.
* - Um, actually… physics figured it out in 2005 with slow-motion cameras.


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Previous Results
Friday was report card day! We shared a therapist’s six ways of proving to yourself that you’re doing better than you think.
Which class would GOOD readers score best in if adults still got report cards? Though it was a close race, Social studies won the day. 37.9% of you are social butterflies, apparently!
Finances | Top of the class at pretending I understand my 401(k). (8.0%)
Social studies | I can read a room and exit a party at peak fun. (37.9%)
Home Ec | My fridge has leftovers AND a meal plan. Mostly. (35.6%)
PE | I walked 10,000 steps once and still think about it. (18.4%)
Ideas
Brad stole your idea in the meeting, here’s the move that gets it back
It was originally my idea to cover this story, but Erik stole it! (I’m kidding!)
It’s a shockingly common story. The meeting is in full swing, you throw out a killer idea and… crickets. 15 minutes later, someone, let’s call them ‘Brad’, pitches your idea, and the room explodes as if he’s just solved world hunger. Now what do you do? Shouting "That was my idea!" makes you look childish and petulant. Keeping your mouth shut fills you with a quiet rage and loses you the credit you actually deserve.
Erik Barnes digs into the work of Dr. Shadé Zahrai, a former attorney-turned-career strategist who's gone viral for offering a real answer to this exact scenario. Her technique has two moves: "build forward" (re-enter the conversation and re-anchor the idea to yourself, without sounding territorial) and get curious (ask Brad where he came up with it, which gives him the opening to return credit, or at least makes the room quietly do the math).
The scripts she provides are specific enough to actually use on a real Brad. Calm. Confident. Zero HR incident risk.
There's also a prevention play for next time, which is honestly the smarter long game.
Health
Someone finally checked the math on six decades of baby studies
For decades, a tidy narrative has shaped how we think about newborn boys: less tuned to faces, less wired for connection, less social right out of the gate. The problem? That whole story traces back to a single study of 102 newborns that researchers have since called "deeply flawed."
Neuroscientist Lise Eliot wasn't buying it. So her team went back through six decades of published research and pooled data from 40 experiments involving nearly 2,000 infants to actually test whether baby boys and girls differ in social attention. What they found was essentially nothing. No significant gap in face-gazing. No meaningful difference in contagious crying. In the one dataset where girls edged ahead, they were slightly more attentive to everything, faces and rattles alike, which researchers chalk up to a general developmental maturity advantage, not some innate social superpower.
Most parents can't help but gender-code their kids from day one. Eliot's team has thoughts on what that costs.


On April 20, 1939, Billie Holiday walked into a borrowed studio on Fifth Avenue and recorded a song her own record label was too afraid to release. Columbia Records had passed. Her producer had passed. The company feared backlash from Southern retailers and radio affiliates. So Holiday took the song to Commodore Records, a small independent run out of a record shop on West 52nd Street, secured a one-session release from her contract, and showed up with the house band from Cafe Society, New York City's first racially integrated nightclub.
The song was "Strange Fruit," a haunting protest poem set to music by Abel Meeropol, a Jewish high school teacher from the Bronx who had been shaken to his core by photographs of lynchings in the American South. Holiday had first performed it just weeks earlier, closing her Cafe Society set in near-total darkness, a single spotlight on her face. When she finished, the room went completely silent before a lone person began to clap.
The recording session took four hours. Holiday was 24 years old. The track would go on to sell a million copies, becoming the biggest-selling record of her career. In 1999, Time magazine named it the Best Song of the Century. Atlantic Records co-founder Ahmet Ertegun called it "the beginning of the civil rights movement." What started as a poem in a teachers’ union magazine became, in the hands of one fearless singer, a four-minute reckoning that a nation could not look away from.
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