Recess deserves a spot on the report card

There’s more happening on the playground than meets the eye. Also: crows and clapbacks.

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Today’s issue offers a few ways to improve your social life, starting with people who aren’t people. Tod Perry explores the surprisingly appealing prospect of befriending a crow, a researcher makes the case for protecting the playground’s particular brand of chaos, and a therapist has advice for those interactions that leave you muttering “unbelievable” all the way home.

Society

The playground has a pretty good academic defense.

Recess: a chance for kids to run around and for teachers to take a breath, sip something that used to be hot, and briefly hear themselves think. That alone seems like a solid argument for keeping it. But there’s more going on out there than a much-needed breather for everyone involved.

Schools face pressure to squeeze more learning into the day, and free play can look expendable. As Harvard education researcher Louisa Penfold argues, the trouble starts with what we count as learning.

A lot happens while kids negotiate playground rules or invent something involving a stick. With schools weighing tight budgets and packed schedules, the case for protecting that glorious stretch between bells goes well beyond letting kids burn off steam.

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Frequent contributor Pamela Graves shares another beautiful image. This one was captured during a fall sunrise in Essex, Connecticut, overlooking the Connecticut River and the Connecticut River Museum.

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What do some young American crows do after they’re old enough to leave home?

The nest may be empty. The family business isn’t.

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Yesterday's Results

Yesterday we shared some old-fashioned baby names making a comeback, which inspired us to ask: Which of these names was originally a nickname for Margaret?

85.9% of you knew it was Peggy! Margaret to Meg to Peg to Peggy is quite a journey for a nickname.

  • Sally (2.9%)

  • Peggy (85.9%) 🏆

  • Betty (7.6%)

  • Nellie (3.7%)

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Crows are incredibly smart. Here’s how to make friends with one in four easy steps.

How to befriend a crow.

Crows are incredibly smart. Here’s how to make friends with one in four easy steps.

“They are loyal friends and have brought much joy into my life.”

By Tod Perry

When it comes to keeping birds as pets, people usually think about parrots or canaries. Nobody ever considers having a crow. But research has shown that crows are incredibly clever and curious, and a 2020 study found they are capable of a basic form of consciousness. They recognize the faces of people they like or don’t like, have the ability to use tools, and some can even mimic human speech. Looking to experience the magic of crows yourself? A YouTube user named Alexandra from Germany made a video on how you can befriend the crows in your neighborhood in four easy steps. All it takes is “some food and some patience.”

Years ago, Alexandra made friends with a crow named Krari. Krari and friends visit Alexandra regularly and are considered part of the family. They also bring their “little ones” to Alexandra’s house to chill. “They come here to get food, to play, or just hang out with me and relax,” Alexandra says in an introductory video on her YouTube page.

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Well-being

A therapist shares the three-step playbook for dealing with rude people without letting them hijack your whole day.

A rude person can ruin your day before you’ve finished your coffee. Some people have a talent for saying just the wrong thing with just the right infuriating tone and boom… It’s all you can think about.

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“At the end of the day, emotional regulation is your strength, and reactivity gives your power away.”

Therapist Jeffrey Meltzer

Therapist Jeffrey Meltzer says the trick is not “be nicer.” It’s learning how not to hand over the keys to your nervous system in the first place. As Mark Wales reports, skip the passive-aggressive revenge tour and practice calm, assertive responses before you actually need them. It’s less about winning the interaction and more about refusing to let someone else’s bad behavior move into your brain rent-free.

Today in History

On November 10, 1951, the first coast-to-coast telephone call was dialed without an operator. The mayor of Englewood, New Jersey, called the mayor of Alameda, California, and naturally, their groundbreaking conversation began with a discussion of the weather. Until then, placing a long-distance call generally meant asking an operator to connect you.

The new system, known as direct distance dialing, was a technological marvel that would gradually spread across the country. Suddenly, the prospect of calling someone thousands of miles away was becoming as simple as dialing a number. Of course, callers still had to worry about those eye-watering long-distance charges, which would remain a familiar household concern for decades.

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Until tomorrow, wish me luck. I’m still trying to befriend the crows on my street. I’ve named them Russel and Sheryl.