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Researchers found 5 kinds of generous people, which one are you?

Why we give gets surprisingly personal, and one unexpected detour saves a life.

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“There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.”
 ― John Holmes

Why do we help other people? George E. Mitchell has research suggesting there are at least five different answers to that question. And in a very different kind of story about helping, a detour nobody planned to take becomes exactly the one that mattered.

Ideas

Money, motives and a little social status make for a surprisingly human mix.

With fewer Americans donating and volunteering, it's easy to assume our collective generosity tank is running low. But the data tells a messier, more hopeful story. A national survey of 2,569 adults found that giving is still remarkably common, even if what gets us to open our wallets, volunteer our time, or jump into action varies wildly.

In this story by George E. Mitchell, researchers sorted Americans into five distinct generosity profiles based on their motivations, circumstances, and habits. Some desperately want to help but lack the cash, while others have plenty to give and some very human reasons for doing it. It’s the same complicated impulse behind everything from a stranger quietly covering a toddler’s $749 plane ticket to research showing that receiving foreign aid can inspire people to pay generosity forward.

And here’s where it gets interesting: the five groups don’t just give different amounts. They seem to be responding to completely different emotional buttons. Your particular brand of generosity might say more about you than the amount you donate. The biggest group, the most active group, and the group least interested in simply writing a check are not necessarily the ones you’d expect.

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GOOD reader Susan Young found her way home to Alaska and sent several stunning images. Her nephew took this one northwest of their home in Palmer. I need something for scale here, because to me it looks like you could use this guy as the goalposts in an NFL game!

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Yesterday's Results

And we asked: Which part of everyday life most desperately needs a cheat code? 48% of you chose passwords and tech. Clearly, modern life still has some bugs to work out.

  • Cleaning (28%)

  • Cooking (12%)

  • Passwords and tech (48%)

  • Finding things I just had (11%)

GOOD reader Diane Deutsch summed it up perfectly! “Passwords?! Ugh!!!”

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Millennial dad of 3 challenges boomer parents over unreasonable holiday expectations

An upset father talks on the phone while his son looks on

Millennial dad of 3 challenges boomer parents over unreasonable holiday expectations

“Yeah, not this time,” he said. “I think for the holidays I’m just gonna stay in and relax.”

By Tod Perry

The holidays are supposed to be a time for enjoying special moments with family, but often they become a source of stress. Traveling, navigating familial relationships and tensions, talking politics at the dinner table, and handling the all-encompassing issue of “presents” can wear down even the most patient and even-keeled person. It can be especially challenging for parents with young kids who are expected to travel long distances in the name of “family togetherness.”

A TikTok video posted by @carrerasfam is going viral, with over 300,000 views, because so many millennial parents can relate to the frustration of grandparents having unrealistic expectations related to visiting with the kids.

In the satirical video, a husband stages a conversation with his “practically retired” baby boomer dad, in which he explains politely but firmly that he’s not taking his 3 young kids on a 400-mile drive to their house for the holidays.

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After eight years, they chose to take the road not taken.

In Minnesota, 68-year-old Kathryn Woessner stepped out of her van and into what looked like an ordinary puddle. It wasn't. The mud was deep enough to swallow her almost whole, like quicksand with no bottom, and for three days she lay there, nearly submerged, with no way out and no one close enough to hear her.

Adam Sandbeck and Mike Gravalin were out riding their ATVs when they made one small choice that would matter enormously. There was a flooded trail they'd driven past for eight years and never once explored. On a whim, they turned down it. In this story by Erik Barnes, the two friends describe what they spotted in the clearing, and the two faint words that proved they were not too late.

Today in History

On September 22, 1994, six mostly little-known actors gathered in a Manhattan coffee shop, at least on TV, for the first episode of Friends. The NBC sitcom ran for 10 seasons, turned its cast into global stars, and left an outsized mark on everything from hairstyles and catchphrases to the way sitcoms portrayed friendship as a kind of chosen family. 

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Until tomorrow, whichever of the five types you are, don’t forget to do some GOOD today.