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Love, murder, and happiness
This Friday issue has it all. A bride ‘murdered’ at rehearsal dinner. Second-grade marriage advice. Plus, the happiness question we may be asking all wrong.
“Happiness [is] only real when shared”
― Jon Krakauer
In this issue...
Ideas
Romance, murder, intrigue, and a delicious plot twist the groom never saw coming.
The party had gathered. Candlelight flickered. Old Hollywood glamour draped itself over every table, every glass, every carefully chosen detail. But intrigue had RSVP’d too, and it was about to make an entrance.
Resplendent in a gown worthy of the occasion, 28-year-old bride-to-be Alexandra Lahde rose to speak. She thanked her guests. She smiled. She lifted her glass.
Then she began to cough.
At first, it was nothing. Then it was very much something. The room shifted. She reached for support. Guests froze. And before anyone could decide whether to scream, sprint, or spill their champagne, the night cracked open in a way nobody expected.
As our resident ink-stained scoop hound Adam Albright-Hanna reports, what followed turned a rehearsal dinner into something far stranger, far funnier, and far more theatrical than anyone in the room had bargained for.


GOOD reader, and repeat contributor of stunning imagery, Anne Kristine Fellrath shares this view from the Straits of Juan de Fuca, Coupeville, Washington, that, somehow, captures the exact vibe I want for my weekend.
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Culture
A teacher asked her students how to make a marriage work. Their answers were simple, strange, and kind of hard to argue with.
I’ll be married for 18 years next Friday (note to self: find a gift!), and let me tell you, some of the advice Ms. Klarissa Trevino got from her second-graders on marriage could’ve saved me a few headaches.
Trevino, a teacher in Texas, asked her students to fill in one sentence before her big day: “The marriage advice I give my teacher is…” As Mark Wales reports, the results were equal parts kid logic, accidental comedy, and actual wisdom. “Don’t eat my snacks” is particularly insightful.
It’s easy to call it cute. It’s harder once you see what research says about how kids actually think about relationships.

Which bit of second-grade advice do you wish you’d received before you got married?Behold, wisdom unspoiled by age and financial constraint. |
And what did we learn?
Yesterday, we shared the story of a young British woman who was the victim of an unfairly enforced dress code (read the story to learn the happy ending).
How do GOOD readers feel about dress codes? Most of you are fine with a dress code as long as it’s fairly enforced, which, you know, seems fair!
There’s no dress code in my home office. (21.4%)
Judge my work, not my outfit. (28.6%)
I love a dress code. Chaos is not a look. (19.0%)
Enforce it fairly or don’t bother at all. (31.0%)
Culture | From the Vault
“When are we happiest?” is only half the question
We keep asking “when”, turns out the better question might be “where”.
We’ve all heard the clichés: wild 20s, golden 60s. But happiness doesn’t always follow the birthday candles. It shifts by country, community, and even zip code.
In the U.S., joy tends to spike around 30 and again after 70. But that’s changing. Gen Z and Millennials are experiencing midlife crises before 40, largely due to rising costs, climate anxiety, and career stagnation. Meanwhile, young people in places like Lithuania and Serbia are thriving more than ever before.
Turns out, location and support networks matter way more than candles on your cake. And one Harvard study spanning 86 years says giving back might be the ultimate happiness hack.


On March 20, 1916, Albert Einstein submitted the paper that fully introduced general relativity to the world. Though Einstein has literally become synonymous with the idea of genius itself, his groundbreaking theory isn’t only interesting for its academic virtues.
Relativity showed that gravity is not just a force pulling on objects; it is the bending of space and time itself. That sounds cosmic, but it matters when you open your phone and ask for directions. GPS satellites experience time slightly differently than clocks on Earth, thanks to both their speed and their distance from our planet’s gravity. If engineers ignored Einstein, your location could drift by miles.
His theory also helps scientists understand black holes, predict how light bends around stars, and detect gravitational waves from colliding objects billions of light-years away. Einstein did not just change physics. He changed navigation, astronomy, and the way we measure reality itself.
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While pet pics aren’t really what we feature in Image of the Day, I’ve received so many wonderful submissions that I couldn’t just let them sit unseen. So every Friday, I’ll be sharing a reader-submitted photo of a favorite pet. Want yours featured? Send it along.

Reader Patricia Langham shared this pic of her beautiful Rottweiler Angel giving a bit of the ol’ side-eye. She seems a little suspicious of that camera.
Until next week, may your snacks be untouched and your happiness reach Serbian levels.





